A Defining Moment
In Your Life
The old phrase “A Defining Moment” is so accurate as to what actually happens in life.
I would like to define A Defining Moment…..
A defining moment is any moment you make a judgment or decide that what you have experienced is true for you!
That moment then defines you and your future experience. It is the moment you decide the qualities of your character, your beliefs, your emotions and your identity, typically without realizing it. We all have thousands if not millions of defining moments, most we are not conscious of.
Any time you have said or thought…..they did it to me, they made me feel, I feel, I believe, I believe this, you are, they are, I am etc. is a defining moment. A moment in which you define life, others or yourself…. I hope you get the point here.
Every time you do this you are creating a perceived identity of yourself and the world, It feels real and you then see life and your self this way…. However, this false! This is merely a self created belief and belief system. Real to you but nonetheless false!
Take a look back at your life and review all the defining moments you can, evaluate if those decisions serve you any longer and if not change them. You are the creator of your life and beliefs and as you have created your identity up till now, you can recreate and re define your NOW moment. You are the total summation of your beliefs and your defining moments and if life is not what you want…..RE-DEFINE IT !
Michael